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No more Self-Improvement ~ I’m DONE!

Published: July 3, 2010 by Jacqueline Gates Filed Under: Goddess Mindset 13 Comments

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No more Self-Improvement ~ I am so Done!

Everything I’ve read recently has been about improving something ~ whether it’s my blogging; my confidence; my weight; my communication skills; blah; blah; blah.

‘Scuse my language but What the F#&%&$& ????Ā  (What a wuss! Can’t even swear on my own blog ~ and I’m only TYPING!)

Is there really that much wrong with me?
Hell, no! I’m sick of thinking there is.

So here are the links to the communities I mentioned, The Road to Fabulous and The Home and Small Business World. Use them if you please. In my current ballsy mood, I am couldn’t be bothered to write eloquent essays to try to convince you.

But please, take this one thing to heart ~
You don’t need FIXING!
There’s nothing about you that needs ‘improvement’.

You are a powerful, unique, lustrous being, in a very thin disguise.

Care to reveal yourself?

ā€œI’ve continued to recognize the power individuals have to change virtually anything and everything in their lives in an instant. I’ve learned that the resources we need to turn our dreams into reality are within us, merely waiting for the day when we decide to wake up and claim our birthright.ā€ Anthony Robbins

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  1. Kimberly Castleberry says

    July 3, 2010 at 11:40 pm

    Yes! Yes! Yes!

    Way to stand up, own and affirm your personal power! NOW you are letting the Goddess shine!

    This idea of self enhancement is why we try to encourage people to up their skills in their niche and only take on supplemental skills that they absolutely can not get/afford another to do for them. They should never take these supplemental grind, these tasks, on as their personal strength or they will fail to focus on what they can do BEST!

    With love and roses,
    Kimberly

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    • Jacqueline Gates says

      July 4, 2010 at 11:20 am

      Yay! It DOES feel good – feels right.
      And I have your never-ending encouragement to thank.
      Being myself is what I do best ~ and it’s the same for everyone else on the planet.

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  2. Cathie Heath says

    July 4, 2010 at 12:40 am

    Well said, Jacqui!!
    We are strange mixture of uncommon, extraordinary people
    who walk together, in love and humble service, to each other,
    and to mankind.

    My experience in a nutshell…
    Because of my involvement with the March and the amazing
    people there, I’ve reconnected with who I was born to be and
    have fallen in love with myself all over again!

    Great video/post, lady! šŸ™‚

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    • Jacqueline Gates says

      July 4, 2010 at 11:18 am

      Thank you, Cathie. YOU have been a huge inspiration of what can be achieved if you just Follow the Training and Believe in yourself.
      I’m so glad you came to ‘visit’ šŸ™‚

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  3. Linda G. Cox says

    July 4, 2010 at 11:53 am

    Yes Jacqueline,
    We need to take it to the next level! Some people get ‘stuck in in their muck’ and stay in the past pain. You are setting an example of moving onward and upward!
    Thank you!
    ~Linda

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  4. Veggie Val says

    July 4, 2010 at 12:17 pm

    Hey Goddess Jacqui! A wonderful sentiment for INDEPENDENCE DAY! Keep thinking the good thoughts! Best to you and yours, Val.

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  5. Tracey Keefer @ Free MLM Help says

    July 4, 2010 at 11:15 pm

    You are right we all contain what we need to do what it is that we want and that we do best, although those may not always coincide, which is unfortunate.

    There are times we can get all wrapped up in “fixing” ourselves when who we are is just fine and you are right we are not living our authentic selves.

    Glad you found comfort in your own skin, that is a very nice feeling to have.

    “Dream, Believe, Become…”
    Tracey Keefer

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  6. Val Wilcox says

    July 6, 2010 at 3:34 pm

    I wasn’t sure where you were going with this at first, so I listened with an open mind. šŸ™‚ Glad I did! You are right about working to improve the areas we are already good at. That is the key to success. Encourage and empower yourself to bethe best you can be at what you’re good at.

    Thanks for giving me a nudge today,
    Val šŸ™‚

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    • Jacqueline Gates says

      July 10, 2010 at 9:15 pm

      LOL Val ~ I’m so glad you hung in there till the end! I hadn’t really thought how odd the title would seem!

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  7. Jackie Ulmer says

    July 6, 2010 at 5:51 pm

    Well said Goddess! Yes, focus on what you are gifted at and work to improve that and the “slight flaws” will become less!

    Thanks!

    EXPECT Success!

    Jackie Ulmer

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    • Jacqueline Gates says

      July 10, 2010 at 9:16 pm

      Thank you, ma’am! Thanks to you, I am truly beginning to EXPECT success!

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  8. Venus :) says

    July 7, 2010 at 7:37 pm

    Dear Goddess Jacqui,

    Yes! You point is so powerful once again.
    You and all of us are perfect just we are.
    All it takes is to allow that perfection to come out of the closet and be.

    Thank you for inspiring us to do so!

    Infinite love and gratitude to you,
    Venus šŸ™‚

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